Honorariums

Honorariums are monetary gifts given by the family to those who took part in the funeral services. For instance, most families choose to give an honorarium to the officiating minister. Honorariums should also be given to an organist, soloist, bugler, or any other participant in the services. Unless a fee is specified, the amount of the honorarium would be of your choice. You may personally give out the honorariums, or we can do it on your behalf.

What Happens to the Flowers

Sending flowers to the funeral home is an age-old custom whereby people can immediately express their support to the family of the deceased. At the conclusion of the funeral service, many of these flowers can be taken to the cemetery for the committal service and then placed on the closed grave. Usually, any plants, dish gardens or other special flower arrangements are kept by the family. We will ask you about the flowers and what you want done with them.

On-Line Condolences

This website contains a condolence service in which anybody can read an obituary and write a remembrance of the deceased or a message to the family. In addition, both local newspapers, the Meadville Tribune and the Erie Times, also feature a condolence service. For many people, both those living locally and far away, this is a very efficient method of expressing their sympathy. You will want to periodically read the condolences found in this website.

Sending “Thank You” Notes

It would be appropriate for you and your family to acknowledge or thank those who in some way helped or supported you during your time of loss. Those who sent flowers or food, or who gave memorial contributions will certainly need to be acknowledged. You may also want to thank the pallbearers or others that assisted in some special way. A simple card with a personal note or just a card with your name signed will appropriately convey your gratitude. The Van Matre Funeral Home offers personalized thank you notes for your convenience.

Letter of Attendance at Funeral

Some employers or airlines require a letter from the funeral home certifying that their employee or passenger was in attendance for the services. We will furnish this letter if the name, address, and relationship to the deceased are given.